1：do as you would be done by （已所不欲，己所不欲）
2：we should never remember the benefits we have offered nor forget the favor received. （自身的好事兒別去提，他人的恩典要牢記。 ）
3：gratitude is the sign of noble souls. （感恩是精神實質崇高的標示。）
感恩的小故事：
1：枯葉半空中回旋，鑄就著壹曲感恩的協奏曲，那就是樹木對滋潤它地面的感恩；雲朵在湛藍的天空中飄揚，美術繪畫著那壹幅幅感人至深的界面，那就是雲朵對養育它的藍天白雲的感恩。由於感恩才會有這壹多姿多彩社會發展，由於感恩才會有誠摯的友誼。由於感恩才使我們了解了生命的真諦。
in the deciduous circled in the air, composed of a movement of thanksgiving, it was a tree on the earths thanksgiving nourish it; white clouds in the blue sky around, painting paintings zhao na touching the screen, which is feeding on the white clouds blue sky thanksgiving. thanksgiving is because we have made this colorful community, because thanksgiving will be sincere friendship. thanksgiving because it let us know the true meaning of life.
2： when we put a small piece of alum into muddy water, we can see the alum can soon make the water clear. if each of us has an attitude of being grateful, we’ll be able to get rid of impulse, upset, dissatisfaction and misfortune. being grateful can bring us a better and more beautiful life.
把壹小塊明鞏放進雜亂的水裏，大家發覺，水迅速就回應了。假如每個人都是有壹顆感恩的心，就能沈積很多的心浮氣躁和躁動不安，消溶很多的不滿意和悲劇。感恩能讓我們的日常生活變的愈發幸福。
3： once president roosevelt’s house was broken into and lots of things were stolen.hearing this, one of roosevelt’s friends wrote to him and advised him not to take it to his heart so much. president roosevelt wrote back immediately, saying,”dear friend, thank you for your letter to comfort me. i’m all right now. i think i should thank god. this is because of the following three reasons: firstly, the thief only stole things from me but did not hurt me at all; secondly, the thief has stolen some of my things instead of all my things; thirdly, most luckily for me, it was the man rather than me who became a thief…”
特朗普總統裏根的家以前失竊，財物損失比較嚴重。好朋友聞此信息，就寄信來寬慰他，勸他無須把這事放在心裏。羅斯福總統迅速回復說：“我親愛的朋友，謝謝妳來信寬慰我，我壹切都很好。我想我應當感謝上蒼，由於：第壹，我損失的僅僅財物，而人卻未損未損；第二，我只損失了壹部分財物，並非全部資產；第三，最幸運的是，做竊賊的是那人，而並不是我……”
it was quite unlucky for anyone to be stolen from.. however, president roosevelt had such three reasons to be so grateful. this story tells us how we can learn to be grateful in our life.
對所有人而言，家裏失竊並非快事。可是，羅斯福總統卻能尋找三個感恩的原因。這個故事提醒大家，生活中，我們應當學好感恩。
4： i think we should even be grateful to life whenever we are unsuccessful or unlucky. only by doing this can we find our weakness and shortcomings when we fail. we can also get relief and warmth when we are unlucky. this can help us find our courage to overcome the difficulties we may face, and receive great impetus to move on. we should treat our frustration and misfortune in our life in the other way just as president roosevelt did. we should be grateful all the time and keep having a healthy attitude to our life forever, keep having perfect characters and enterprising spirit. being grateful is not only a kind of comfort, not an escape from life and nor thinking of winning in spirit like ah q. being grateful is a way to sing for our life which comes just from our love and hope.***3頁,現階段第1頁123